Supporting moms to tackle
lacklustre sex and low libido
so they can find the spark in their relationship and in themselves after kids.

Wake up your libido even if you are touched out, tired and out of tune with your partner. Join us anytime. Ten minute audio/video lessons right to your inbox and new practices you can implement in ten minutes a day to learn how your libido works, and communicate with your partner.
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What is the
Happy Vagina Project?

What started as a quest for the mighty orgasm has become a
movement of mamas finding the path back to their pleasure and
themselves after childbirth and parenthood.

We believe that becoming BFFS with your vagina is the way back to your pleasure and yourself.

We know that you are not broken. That your body knows what it needs, and that if we give you the tools to listen you can transform your sex life and your relationship.

We know this is not just YOUR problem to fix, sex is relational and you need the tools to work WITH your partner to build the sex life you both want together.

We believe that parenthood is a potent portal for transformation in our lives.

We believe that knowledge is power and the patriarchy has kept the path to our pleasure secret for too long.

We believe that vulvas have faced violence and silence for far too long.

We believe everyone, and especially men, are part of the solution.

We believe by reclaiming the joy and pleasure in our lives we can resist the systems that keep us down and change the world.

We believe that every person has the right to fully express themselves as they are and to love who they want to love in safety.

We believe the orgasm gap must end for true equality in the world.

Hey there, I am Sofia

I am your totally TMI bestie who has been giving sex advice since high school. I am a certified sex coach and educator with over 10 years experience teaching adults, teens and tots about sex, pleasure, consent and relationships.

I am a mama and step mama living in a neurospicy household and a blended family just trying to keep my libido alive in this busy world while parenting three kiddos. I spent my twenties at war with my vagina and searching for the grand orgasm. Along the way I found out that the keys to better sex are the keys to a better life and that listening to my V(ahem that’s code for vagina) made a happier Me.

I’m excited to see you here at the Happy V. Come find us on Insta, I’m always up for a DM (no dick picks please haha).

Sex After Kids
9 Month Couples Program

This nine month journey is designed to help couples get back in the sack on the regular …and enjoying it, after kids. Too many parents are stuck in a dynamic of guilt, shame, and resentment - having no or very infrequent sex that most often doesn’t feel great - for anyone. This course is designed to

help you WANT to want sex by understanding your libido and becoming BFFs with your body.
take the risk out of talking about it and help you communicate
hack your sleep deprivation and busy life and make space for connection.

Through a series of lessons, interactive activities, and Naked Sexy Fun Times Dates this program will help you to ditch the guilt, wake up your libido, and get past the quickies for fun, playful and totally connected sex at least twice a month, building up to that goal over time.

What folks have to say…

"I came out with some simple tools to use everyday and a sense of self confidence that is unparalleled to what I’ve ever gotten before"

I took the class to start unpacking some trauma I was bringing into my relationship and to feel more comfortable with my partner. Her empathy and direct feedback are incredible.
"There are different types of sexy"

Through the workshop I learned that I am a strong independent woman and I am proud of myself. It’s ok to be free and not worry about everything that could happen. There are different types of sexy - it’s ok to be me.
"Our naked sexy fun times was a success. "

It really made our intentions clear (connecting, relaxing with each other and having a positive experience). We went to bed late, but grateful and happy! We appreciate Sofia’s easy to follow tips and strategies to help rekindle the sparks and prioritizing our intimacy.